February 25, 2018

2018 Lent Calendar, Week 3



My theme for Lent this year is Mindful Contribution. I've been working at being more mindful-- being aware of how my thoughts wander, feeling grateful and savoring life, showing greater compassion, and expressing all of that with kindness, engagement, and contribution. It's a pretty fuzzy effort, easy to forget about or minimize, especially when I get busy.

As a symbol of that goal, I plan to fast from screentime at mealtime. I will eat each of my meals in a more meditative way- saying a prayer, giving attention to the food, perhaps writing a letter or writing in my journal, talking to my family, or reading something contemplative.


I'm also going to continue to explore social justice issues, and take some compassionate actions. I'll do a little study, prayer, journaling, artwork, or action each day... I don't know how this will evolve, but it will be revealed to me, week by week!


February 25, 2nd Sunday of Lent: 
-Prayer of thankfulness for simple food
I've had the flu for 9 days and ate almost nothing. (I lost 5 pounds but I don't recommend the flu diet!) While it's true that Lent is a time of fasting, now I offer my prayer of thankfulness for simple foods-- for a bowl of muesli and a banana; for a chicken sandwich on whole grain bread; for tomato soup and crackers. I savor ever bite and am thankful.

February 26:
-Study compassion
“It is unconditional compassion for ourselves that leads naturally to unconditional compassion for others. If we are willing to stand fully in our own shoes and never give up on ourselves, then we will be able to put ourselves in the shoes of others and never give up on them. True compassion does not come from wanting to help out those less fortunate than ourselves but from realizing our kinship with all beings.”
― Pema Chödrön, Start Where You Are: A Guide to Compassionate Living

February 27:

February 28:

March 1, Full Moon:
-Journal queries
Write about new ideas I have this spring- ideas of change and new beginnings.
What is the hope I feel? 
What is the strongest fear?

March 2, World Day of Prayer: 
-Prayer for Creation
Divine Creator, Spirit in All Things,
Your kingdom is Here, and Now.
Your creativity is manifest everywhere I look on this heavenly Earth.
Nourish us Body and Soul in this earthly Paradise.

Forgive us for not noticing, for overlooking, the tiny, the subtle,
The seemingly insignificant beauty in your Creation.
And teach us how to forgive those who would harm your Great Works.

Make our Loving attention constant.
Deliver us from Ingratitude.
For You are our perfect Guide through the Delights of our sacred Home.


BeFriending Creation Volume 30, Number 2
The bi-monthly journal of Quaker Earthcare Witness


March 3, Hina Matsuri:
- Prepare for the spring planting

February 22, 2018

Pea Planting Day

Pea Planting Day is a special anniversary for us. 
February 22 is listed on my planting calendar as the first day to plant peas in the Willamette Valley; it also happens that this is the day W and I got engaged to each other, 42 years ago!

Peas are traditionally the first vegetable sown outside in the spring because they will germinate and grow in very cool soil. We plant peas today to ceremonially kick off the start of the planting season, and also to remind ourselves of the beginnings of our relationship; the day we decided to be together forever.

Agenda Today:
1. Plant a prayer
2. Pea Planting Ceremony

February 19, 2018

Clean Monday

Today is known as Clean Monday in the Eastern Orthodox tradition. The clean originally referred to the purification of the soul for Lent. Today it's customary to clean the house thoroughly, and, in Greece, people go on picnics, eat shellfish, and fly kites!

Agenda Today:
1. Clean House
2. Make Skordalia (Greek garlic-potato dip)
3. Prayer of Cleansing

February 18, 2018

2018 Lent Calendar, Week 2

My theme for Lent this year is Mindful Contribution. I've been working at being more mindful-- being aware of how my thoughts wander, feeling grateful and savoring life, showing greater compassion, and expressing all of that with kindness, engagement, and contribution. It's a pretty fuzzy effort, easy to forget about or minimize, especially when I get busy.

As a symbol of that goal, I plan to fast from screentime at mealtime. I will eat each of my meals in a more meditative way- saying a prayer, giving attention to the food, perhaps writing a letter or writing in my journal, talking to my family, or reading something contemplative.


I'm also going to continue to explore social justice issues, and take some compassionate actions. I'll do a little study, prayer, journaling, artwork, or action each day... I don't know how this will evolve, but it will be revealed to me, week by week!


February 18, 1st Sunday of Lent and Forgiveness Sunday:
-Journal queries on Equality
Do I regularly examine myself for evidence of privilege and prejudice?
What am I doing to overcome the contemporary effects of past and present oppression?
How do I avoid being drawn into violent reactions against those who are destructive of human dignity? 
Do I reach out to the violator as well as the violated with courage and love?

February 19, Clean Monday:
-Prayer of Cleansing:

I Cleanse My Soul- Author Unknown 

I cleanse my soul in the dews of spring,
Light of mind's refreshing dew
Love of heart's renewing dew,
Life being's restoring dew,

Cleanse and recreate my soul this night.
May the souls of all beings be
Peacefully preserved
From fall of night
Till day's dear light.

February 20:
February 21:
February 22, Pea Planting Day:
-Plant a prayer
“When it comes to the practice of heart prayer, give up all concerns about success or failure. What you are doing in these times is planting prayer within yourself so that it will be there the rest of the day. It is very much indeed about planting a seed in the ground. You just put it there and let it take its natural course. Don’t keep digging it up to see how it is growing. Don’t try to manipulate or control it; just notice it, appreciate it. Entrust its care to God.” – Gerald May, The Awakened Heart


February 23:
February 24:

First Sunday of Lent and Forgiveness Sunday

Today is the first Sunday in Lent, and also Forgiveness Sunday in the Eastern Orthodox Church. It's officially the last day of the Maslenitsa festival in Russia. Lent starts tomorrow, on Clean Monday, in both the Russian and Greek churches. 

Agenda Today:

1. Contemplate the testimony of equality
2. Journal queries
3. Go to a Racism Workshop
4. Ask Forgiveness
5. Make Tyropita (Cheese Pie)
6. Have a fire

February 16, 2018

Chinese New Year of the Dog

This first day of the Chinese New Year is called Yüan-tan, the "Day of Origin". This one day determines the luck for the entire year, so Chinese people are careful to use their best manners and to remain honest and peaceful. 

They spend the first days of the year making visits to friends and relatives: Parents and grandparents receive the first visits, and so on, until by the fourth day very casual friends may drop in. The fifth day is reserved for visits to people who live further away.

Visitors greet each other with kind words to help encourage a year of prosperity. The most common greeting is:

Gung hay fat choy 
(Pronounced "Goong Heyy Faat Choy")

Congratulations, may you be prosperous!

2018 is the year of the Dog. A Dog is loyal and 
amiable, but also cautious and prudent. The Chinese regard it as an auspicious animal. If a dog happens to come to a house, it symbolizes the coming of fortune. People born in the year of the dog are straightforward, genuine, and persistent. They are intensely protective of their friends and family, and good at helping others find and fix their bad habits.

Agenda for today:
1. Eat jai for breakfast
2. Give gifts
3. Make and give hóngbāo (money packets)